More and more recently I hear from both genders that titles are not as important as they once were. If the substance is there than "what's in a title?" that question always baffles me,if the substance is there then why not the title. Why do men (particularly) feel that they can date a women for months even years before giving her the proper title girlfriend or even later down the road wife. How do you introduce this said person… this is my "FRIEND" or this is "Jada," nothing more. Don't they deserve something more?
I have ran into this problem a few times in college where the guy said we know what we are to each other and that's all that matters. He may flirt with other girls but at the end of the night he's coming to be with me, its working for his friend so why am I being so difficult. I was not a fan of the deal he was putting in front of me and eventually we no longer existed to one another. It didn't work for me then and it won't now. A title just lets the female and the world know that you are committed to something… hell someone! How can we be all about you or trusting if you won't give us the respect that you ask of us.
Why does a title change so much?
No comments:
Post a Comment