To piggyback off the last entry when a relationship goes sour it can be hard even harder if you hoped the guy would try to get you back and doesn't. I have had many conversations about this topic and I would say that men need to try harder, while my male friend would argue that when women ignore a man they don't take that as try harder they see it as it's over. Sometimes if he's not fighting to be back in your life either he has found a new or doesn't see you as worth it and that's OK. Females need to learn to not beat ourselves up over the reason why men don't try hard enough for us. We just might not be the "one" and hopefully we'll learn that they weren't either.
To get to this conclusion will take many reflections of self and coming to terms that he may have done you a favor. If he's not even gonna try then why would you want someone like that. My same male friend that I have these talks with doesn't believe that men should have to try, but I do. Actually both people in the relationship should try, I'm not gonna pretend that women should not participate but in all entities of life if you want something you go for it and if you don't this is what happens. No need to lose sleep over it, realize it wasn't meant to be, your more than he was prepared for and you need someone that is more in tuned.
