There are times when juggling relationships can be really fun and acting like a guy can seem liberating. You date as many people as you want and dispose of them when done. Well, unfortunately a female doing this is not as simple, as usual old faithful sets in and our emotions are thrown in the mix. This always happens to me, every summer I meet as many as possible and weed them out one by one. Of course there will be a main guy that gets attention more than others, he might get the phone call while everyone else gets a text or maybe even a tweet.The moment that changes everything is when he realizes he got your and therefore you caught.
The beginning stages are great when the guy does everything in his power to win you over(that's if he's really interested). He calls often, sends morning text just to say,"good morning," or later in the day to say "hi" and ask how your day is going. All of this seems genuine and amazing but he is just trying to break down the wall and it seems that all guys know when they have reach that pivotal moment. While as the girl is in bliss doesn't see it coming until the calls have slowed down and now we are dialing religiously. How does this happen time and time again. In my particular case the guy that I have invested most of my time has realized he now has the upper hand and now taking his sweet time giving the runner-up equal opportunity. The runner-up is so excited to be given more chances that he takes the risk and ask for something more real, more solid. Now what girl wouldn't want a commitment, right? For me, I wanted it but the wrong person stepped up but can he truly be the wrong person if the guy you seek doesn't seek you?
