The Poser

Its Diddy hold up, its Diddy say what. Nah I'm lying, Khalif is a guy I met at Diddy's party and if he did not think it was the 90's and he was Puff himself, in the club with a floor length mink, yes it was January but we are in the club and they have coat check. I initially didn't notice him as I was dancing with an actor who just played Notorious B.I.G in the movie. He and I was dancing until I was heavily approached by Khalif, I was entertained by his attire that I just went with it, the atmosphere was good and I was enjoying myself so why not. We exchanged numbers and off I went with my girls. The very next day he calls and that right there just showed me his age, a guy my age would've at least waited a a day or two. Khalif quickly told me of his profession as he claimed to be a "producer" of an up and coming rapper. I never heard of the rapper at the time but he is definitely known now, SMH! Khalif easily stated that he has money and wanted to share it with someone and broke down the rules and regulations of how this comes about.

1. He doesn't give up money for free, we're grown so I know what's up. Yikes
2. If ever he was in town I should be available at all times.
3. If I'm not interested believe him there are many girls that are.

Is this how men are these days or is it just the assholes with money? I couldn't believe that I was just proposition. I talked it over with a few friends and sadly my girls were all for it. No one question the harmful truth of I really didn't know this man. They asked if I can bring someone then they will go too. No longer than a week was Khalif asking me to fly to Atlanta and stay with him. We would go shopping, attend parties and have a great time, with an offer like that who could refuse, things like this do not happen often but I still wasn't warming up to the idea. I guess he could sense my hesitation and decided to put fire under my butt. Khalif let me know that I didn't have a long time to decide and reminded me of how there are other females willing and excited to jump at the chance. Remember one of his rules, "I'm suppose to be available at all times". When people talk to me like that I do the opposite and say the wrong thing and the wrong thing being…. take them if you got other females why are you calling me. I guess he wasn't expecting that from a young girl so tried to take another approach and ask have I ever been flown some place is this new to me. Once again, I had to shock him and say no and truthfully it was no, I have been flown places before by a guy the only difference we were in a relationship. I don't know this guy and decided to cut losses can't miss someone I never knew, but I did pick up a paper much later to discover that Khalif's team was being investigated and so happy I was smart enough to miss that bullet. So thankful that I wasn't in a remake of a hood classic novel as it sounded to be.